Your Questions, Answered
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In New York, I am a available at a select number of reputable professional dungeons in the Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Poughkeepsie area. For outcall sessions I will see you at an upscale hotel you’re staying at or that I reserve for us. The cost for an outcall space is in addition to My rate.
I am passport ready, making Me available to fly or travel by train (I’m undoubtedly Amtrak’s biggest fan) to meet you anywhere across the U.S or internationally. My T/FMTY rates are published in my SESSIONS tab.
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There are no two sessions alike and that’s the beauty of it all! Our private moments are 100% bespoke, designed particularly for your suffering. There’s no script I can give you that dictates exactly how it will go, you’ll simply have to come find out for yourself. Alternatively, you can purchase My content which could never compare to the real thing but it gives you some idea..
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My rate starts at 500/hourly. It’s increase is contingent on session requests and location. When you successfully submit an application, I provide a quote.
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In this line of work, fantasy bookers and timewasters are prevalent. A deposit assures Me that you aren’t wasting the time I cut out of My schedule for you. If the fancy shmancy restaurant charges a last minute cancelation fee because they reserved a place for you when it could have gone to someone that was going to show up, think of Me as the same. I do not allow anyone a place on My calendar without a deposit to confirm. If you happen to be unsure of the exact date and that is why you cannot deposit, then I will continue to fill My schedule, including your requested date, with someone who is ready.
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You must reschedule your session within 15 days or you forfeit your deposit. If you cancel with at least 48 hours notice, your deposit will be held for next time. If you cancel with less than 48 hours notice, you forfeit your deposit entirely and I reserve the right to ask for the session rate in full. All deposits are nonrefundable.
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Not on any day that ends with ‘y’. Attempting to haggle is such an unattractive way to introduce yourself and it is not allowed. Devaluing My craft and the service I provide will get you nothing but a voided application. Save your money if you truly wish to experience Me and show up with some respect. I do not accept domestic slaves who want to “pay with service”, I already have personal submissives that have undergone a great deal of training and actively work for the privilege of doing My menial tasks.
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Absolutely! I have had the pleasure of being the first Professional Domination experience for many. What did they all have in common? They all remained respectful throughout the booking process, followed My non-negotiable protocol by providing what was asked of them for the vetting process, and not trying to engage in endless chatter via email. If you have any questions about sessions or booking, I always recommend scheduling a paid consultation ($150 for 20 minutes) first to ease your hesitations.
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Outside of My standard session hours, I regularly make use of submissives that align and can withstand being practice dummies for more intense play exclusively of My own skills. Interests include: heavy leather and chain predicament bondage, medical fetish play with sharps and suturing, shibari, and single tail whipping. I do not recommend applying to be one of My dummies as a first timer as this type of session is for My practice which means there will be no extra requests from you or curated fetish outfits. You exist to be as a canvas for My practice and growth as a dedicated fetish artist. If this is the lane you’re allowed to show up in, you are rewarded with a $100 discount off My standard rate toward each hour of our session. There is a 90 session minute minimum in place for discount dummies because when I immerse Myself in a scene, the clock is the last thing I want to focus on.
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100%! I am queer and believe BDSM, FemDom specifically, can exist outside of the binary confines of a woman topping a man. All are welcome to kneel and explore your kinky curiosities, cis women and trans women alike.
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Absolutely! It’s such an honor to be invited into a couples relationship whether to top or teach both parties how to approach power dynamics in all of its forms.
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I am 5’10 barefooted. In heels, My height ranges from 6’3-6’10. As a curvy former D1 soccer player, I have long stopped weighing Myself. I wear a US 10/EU 41.
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As a pure blooded sadist, I don’t measure sessions in orgasms and it hardly ever matters to Me enough to be a goal. That being said, if it happens to be your goal, be very clear about it in your application and I will consider it. That does not means it is guaranteed as I often see orgasms as a reward to be earned with good behavior. A better question to ask yourself: how will you earn the right to orgasm during our session?
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Standing in your truth as a kinky person is hard, I understand. To name the weird and scary thing that turns you on is massively overwhelming but so deeply freeing. To be very clear, this is a safe space. The world of BDSM exists as a third space for the alternative sexual desire so everything is weird. It’s not My place to judge or deny you, and besides, I have very few limits as a Dominatrix. I am almost always unfazed by what is generally defined as “weird”.
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Yes! I provide virtual sessions for $200 an hour and are a great way to test the waters before surrendering at My feet in person. These virtual sessions happen via Jitsi or Zoom. I do not offer “FaceTime shows”. I accept inquiries for virtual sessions up to 24 hours in advance though it is My strong preference to book at least a week ahead as My schedule shifts with how often I travel.
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The time it takes to prepare for a session is contingent on session interests. Some sessions are impossible to be ready for with few hours notice and I will never inconvenience Myself on the accord of your poor time management. I rarely ever have same day availability and if I do, My rate increases by at least 50% and that’s for My convenience.
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I will always wear some variation of fetish wear be it strictly latex, leather, lingerie, nylon or a breathtaking combination of the mentioned. I never session nude. While I rarely accept outfit requests, I will consider them only if the costs of a requested outfits are covered in full if I don’t already own it.
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Yes. I provide references for those I’ve seen within a 3 year time frame. I do not provide references for those that exist outside of this time frame but if you happen to be, your audacity to ask should be paired with a $150 tip.
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There are alternative ways to verify yourself with Me:
Via social hangout ($350 for 1 hour) where I will hand check your ID at the start and we will socialize at a coffee shop or bar of My choosing. This is not a play session but an opportunity to get acquainted in a relaxed setting prior to the dungeon.
Via quick in person vetting ($200) where we will meet at a location of My choosing for a live vetting where I check your ID and send you on your way. This is not a play session nor social hangout and the fee will be collected upfront prior to scheduling a day, time, and location for in person vetting.
Via video call ($80). This is not a video session, but merely a chance to provide visual proof of identification. It takes about 2-3 minutes and I will be off camera, while you will be on camera obviously.
Each alternative option still requires you to show up on session day with your ID. I reserve the right to cancel our session without it.
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When you bring Me there, silly! My travel session packages exist for those that dream of serving Me in their cities or elsewhere and being passport equipped, I am available for travel domestically and internationally with a minimum of 3 days notice. Outside of NYC, I frequently tour Los Angeles and Atlanta several times a year with other locations that are announced at least a month in advance in My monthly newsletter. If My T/FMTY rates are outside of your budget then I strongly suggest flying yourself to Me in NYC, catching Me in a city I’ll be touring, or saving your money when you can make one of these option a reality for yourself.